Advantages
1. She thinks I am listening to her. What I mean is she talks about things that are uninteresting and just because I don’t walk away or tell her to shut the fuck up, she thinks I am “listening”.
2. She will come and pick me up when I am beyond hammered and need only two things a safe ride home and some ass.
3. She will come over to my house whenever I call.
4. She has a nice tight body and looks amazing naked.
5. Our conversations are brief and sexual in nature.
Disadvantages
1. She is very clingy. She constantly needs attention. Always holding on to me trying to touch me in some way.
2. Our conversations are brief and sexual in nature. She has little depth as a person and is very uninteresting.
3. She is inexperienced in the bedroom; very reluctant to try new things.
4. She constantly tries to come over. When she is over I never get to sleep. “wake up, talk to me” is all I hear.
5. She makes me feel old with all of her hip hop and pop music. Nothing on her playlist is worthy of my attention.
This list shouldn’t say that I am a selfish and emotionally void individual, what it should say is that a four year age difference at this point in my life makes a huge difference. That goes for dating women four years older than me as well. After all, are we not supposed to be selfish when it comes to our time and feelings when searching for a potential partner?
